I gave birth about three weeks ago via c-section. It’s been a struggle all through pregnancy until now, but I thank God. My husband has been there for me. We’ve been through thick and thin, and he has been very supportive. He’s the best gift one could pray for as a man. But the problem is that his love language is physical touch. He is also very clingy and always wants intimacy, but at the moment, I’m not down for that. I’m not into all that lovey-dovey thing right now. Sometimes I just want to be alone. It doesn’t mean I’ve stopped loving him. He’s complaining that I’m already changing and that I shout at him when he touches me. I don’t stay where he is, I don’t spend time with him anymore, and I’m trying to tell him it’s not my fault. This is my healing phase, and I’m just healing. Also, he’s complaining about being h0rny, that he’s not getting sex from anywhere else since the last weeks of my pregnancy until now.
He hasn’t been sexually satisfied, which is actually very true. I am always not in the mood. I see sex or touching my body as a chore now. He always makes sure to satisfy me with anything I want before approaching me sexually because I’m always refusing. I just want to be alone. But as a man, it is expected for him to be h0rny. As for me, I can stay without sex or any sort of intimacy. I haven’t stopped loving him. I love him so much, and he does too. We’re not experienced parents, and we’re new couples. What should I do, please? I don’t want to lose my man or push him outside, but I’m also not mentally stable or prepared for any sort of intimacy, and it’s beginning to affect my marriage.
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