I don’t know if I should say this is the worst relationship I’ve had. I’ve been dating this guy, it’s getting to 2 years now. He lives in another state. Trust me when I say the relationship is boring as hell. I’m always the one bringing up conversations. He doesn’t talk about anything, he’s just there. Even when I visit, he never takes me out. We just stay indoors, and he will be sleeping or pressing his phone. When we started, we always video call every day, but not anymore.
It became a one-sided thing, so I had to stop. He won’t even text me every time. This guy would literally ghost me for weeks and return, telling me one or two things came up. When he first ghosted me, I was so scared and worried something bad happened to him, but he came online after a week and acted like nothing happened. He is still doing it, and currently, he has ghosted me again, and it’s a week now.
I texted for 3 days asking if he’s okay or something but got no reply. At this point, I’m tired, and I’ve given up. I’m not gonna text him till he texts back. I know for sure that he would come online later and tell me he’s traumatized, that’s why he couldn’t reach out. I really don’t know what to do because I’m very understanding, and if you speak to me about something, trust me, I’d give listening ears and find a way to help, even if it’s financially.
He used to give me money, but it’s been months now, he keeps telling me he’s broke, and I understand because I know he gives me when he has, though I don’t know if he’s lying. But at least be communicating, don’t just stay there acting like I’m nobody. Even when he needs help with money, I do help out too. The way this guy is, it would be so hard for you to think he’ll cheat on you because you’ll think he can’t approach a girl. But me, I no fit trust that one sha o… e fit dey happen make I no know.
I really don’t know what to do now, can someone advise me? Should I just leave or what? Since last week, he has been ignoring me and my calls, and I’ve not done anything oo. Once in a while, he’ll just start his thing. He doesn’t even call, even when I tell him I’m sick. Nothing at all. He doesn’t even care. He’s just there. At this point, I don’t think it’s love anymore. Maybe dem just dey keep me there, and I don dey commot small small sha.
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