I am 26 years old, and I feel pressured to get married. My partner and I planned on traveling out of the country, and he has spent a lot on getting our documents ready. He still has a lot to spend, and he doesn’t have much cash with him, but he has assets that we are unwilling to sell. I have my personal business, and I help with the little my income can cover, but my fiancée nags every time and gets angry at every little thing. He feels reluctant to apologize anytime we have issues, and he doesn’t trust that I don’t cheat even when I am not. He blocked me every time we had a misunderstanding (which he always starts himself). I tread carefully when dealing with him to the extent that I don’t entertain any man’s chat in my DM, so he won’t feel jealous or complain.
I get contented with the little I get from my business because I don’t want to get anything from him, and I want him to save. I’m a pretty girl, but it’s been so long since I had any proper skincare product, and I don’t complain because I want to be content. I believe I should endure since we have great plans ahead of us (travel). But any little thing, he blocks for weeks, knowing fully well that I can’t cope with a fight and keep malice. It drains me emotionally, but I don’t know what I can do to make him stop or to make him trust me. I feel I want to end the relationship, but I also know his nagging comes from the fact that he needs money to clear the travel plans. What can I do?
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