I am a 28-year-old man, gainfully employed since I was 25. I have been dating my girlfriend for the past 4 years, and the relationship has been so smooth. I confess that knowing her has been one of the best things that has happened to me. She is all I want in a woman; she gives me peace of mind, no stress, and so on. Fast forward to this year, I decided to settle with her. There is this mistake I made from the onset, which is not trying to know her genotype. Since I was 10, my parents have been educating me on the need to know the genotype of any woman I want to get serious with. Maybe I didn’t take this seriously because I never knew we could date this long or even advance to the next level. Maybe I wouldn’t have gotten so involved in her this deep. Rantandtalkz fam, I am AS, and when she finally checked hers, it also came out AS.
The problem now is that she was already 2 months pregnant before we decided to check it. We both are well-read and know the implications of AS getting married to AS. Right now, our world seems shattered. I just don’t know what to do right now. My fear is about the baby in the womb. I don’t want to bring children into the world to suffer because of my stupidity or selfishness. Is there a way we could determine the genotype of the baby in the womb? Please, medical practitioners in the house, should advise. I could tell her to move on, but on my side, it wouldn’t be that easy building a relationship again because of the nature of my job that takes me around Nigeria and sometimes outside the country every now and then. Please, I need your kind advice. Thanks.
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