Hi everyone, I am a young guy, 28 years old. I have a good job and have traveled to many countries for work. I am a feminist from a very conservative and religious family (I’m the radical, free thinker amongst my folks). I have a partner, my childhood love, that I’ve dated for more than 12 years, and I recently started making plans to settle down. She’s everything I prayed for in a woman (kind, hardworking, and self-aware). So I took our names to my pastors to pray and seek God’s guidance for us, but it all came out negative. They all said “Ko sona nbe” (there’s no way there). Even the pastors my mom took our names to said the same thing — that something is going to happen that will cause our breakup. They also mentioned she has someone else she’s dating. Immediately after getting this info, I told her I want a break from the relationship and didn’t talk to her for almost a month. I need advice please. I love her with all my heart and she loves me too. I had a chat with her recently and I discovered she was so heartbroken and waswas sick due to me leaving.
She also confirmed she doesn’t have anybody she’s dating. Please advise me on what to do. Should I ignore the pastors’ advice and go on with our relationship or break it all off? NB: I haven’t been myself because I miss her so much. I don’t think I can marry anyone else aside her. She’s my best friend and lover. My head is messed up.
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