Good day, Rant family. I am a beautiful lady of 25 years, and I have a good job that pays all my bills. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for one year and five months. Though he is a good person and very okay financially, the fact that he doesn’t take correction and feels that he’s always right muzz me. I can’t complain about anything to my boyfriend. I can’t ask for his opinion over anything good I want to do; instead, he will discourage me and find a way to push it on me, and I will end up begging. He will end up saying hurtful words to me when he is angry. We have never hung out, we don’t go on dates, and when I try telling him, he will make me feel like I am saying the wrong thing or doing too much (on top my own money oo).
My love language is gifting and PDA, which I made known to him, and I also lead by example because I surprise him with gifts almost every time, and it’s not like he doesn’t have money. Anytime my boyfriend wants to do anything, he always wants us to share 50/50, and I don’t like it at all because when I want to do things for us, I don’t ask him for a dime. Now we are planning on getting married, and my boyfriend is telling me once we get married, we will start sharing all bills and responsibilities at home. Since he said that to me, I have been reconsidering the relationship because how will I be with someone that doesn’t listen to corrections, is not romantic, and still wants 50/50 in everything? Make una advice me o.
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