I am 20 and dating this Yoruba guy for a month now. He sends me money, and he has given me a lot of gifts. I’ve also done the same. Before we started dating, I told him I am a virgin and that I can’t have sex before marriage because I am Muslim, and I want to keep my virginity. He said he was okay with it. Now, all of a sudden, he has started bringing up issues, saying he doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m cheating. I’ve proven my innocence, but he’s still giving me attitude, and it’s not like he caught me cheating or anything.
Then he started saying that if I want to prove my love for him, we should have sex so we can keep things mutual and not break up. He says he will trust me more if we do. I told him no, even if my mom said I should do it, I wouldn’t, because it’s not what I want. He said we are cool, but he’s still giving me attitude. Please, what do you think I should do? I’m just drained.and yes i am Hausa.
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