Dear Rantz family, my boyfriend of three years breaks up with me and ghosts me at the slightest provocation. The last time we broke up was because I visited him and couldn’t clean his house before going back to my place. Mind you, this guy keeps contact with his ex, takes care of her, and when I find out, he says he just wanted to settle the girl so she leaves us alone. This guy never apologizes when he is wrong. Each time he ghosts me and sees that I’m already moving on, he comes back pretending to have changed, then starts acting nonchalant after some days and breaks up with me again. He keeps complaining that I’m stubborn and treat him like trash because I work and hardly have time to do his laundry as he wants.
But before God and man, I have loved this guy with everything in me, and I showed him in every way. He stopped taking care of me, stopped calling, but always wants me to cook and clean for him. He even stopped touching me at some point. Mind you, at the beginning of this relationship, this guy loved me with everything in him. So my question is, do you think I should go back to him and try to make things work? At this point, I am confused. Am I really as bad as he paints me to be? I really want to be a better person, but I don’t know if I am actually as bad as he says.
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