I can’t imagine I will be out here typing this but for real I really need to pour out my mind before I do something bad. Some parent behavior is just so unfair and painful. Like how can a mother be this cruel to her own child? My mum is willing and ready to curse and send me out of her house over any small thing. Mind you, she isn’t the one feeding or clothing me. Since I was around 17, I started taking care of myself. In fact, I go into relationships with someone that isn’t worth it just to survive. Don’t blame me, no way to get money or sponsor myself to school. Now I have a guy that loves me wholeheartedly and he does everything for me, but not my mum is the issue. Like I avoid telling her things about me or my life, but she told everyone how dangerous and cruel I am because I keep secrets from her. Now I decide to open up, then boom, she is using it against me. I am 24 years old and you said I should have a man that I know I can settle with. After showing her the man, she is now saying I don’t have respect for her just because of—okay, I went to help her stay in shop.
On getting home together, I was pressed and I needed to use the bathroom, so I begged. My boyfriend’s call came through, so I said I will call him back, but I guess he didn’t hear and was still talking. But I didn’t reply and I was just trying to pour water on my body. My mum barged in and was like, why am I receiving a call while bathing? I said he called but I told him to call back and I was using my phone as torch so I can’t take it away from the bathroom. Then she started insulting me, so I said, ahh, had it been I’m home now, then I could have just used the toilet and done whatever I wanted before you guys came back. That was how she started threatening me saying, “Shebi I can’t leave without her shop and the home she rented.” I said, ahh, stop threatening me with everything, and moreover, you know me from day one. I don’t put my bills on you. I told you the money you make is yours to spend, don’t bother spending it on me your child because my mum will literally use anything she does for you against you, that’s all ooo. Then she started cursing me and asked me to pack out of her house, that I should go to my father’s house
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