I just want to hear the truth from you guys, and to know if I’m wrong. I’m 25 years old, staying with my mom and my younger sister. Here is the problem: my mom keeps pressuring me to bring my boyfriend home, a relationship that is just 1 year and some months. I gave her his number, and she called him once, but she still kept insisting that I should bring him. Whereas, in my first relationship of 3 years, I introduced her to the guy, and the same with my second boyfriend. I am tired of introducing different guys to her, which always ends in a breakup. That’s why I decided not to introduce my current boyfriend because I’m tired of explaining every time we break up.
So, I went to a birthday party two days ago and have been telling her about the party for two weeks, and she said, ‘No problem.’ A day before the party, I tried to remind her again. That’s when she requested the celebrant’s picture, phone number, her house address, and the girl’s mom’s contact number. I was so frustrated that I had to vent my anger out, asking, ‘Am I the only one going to the party? Why is she asking for all of those things?’ I went to the party, and on getting home the next day, she had packed all my luggage outside, saying that I should go to my husband’s house.
I was surprised. She’s someone who, if any of her friends’ children are doing something, will make sure she uses those children as an example for me and remind me that ‘girl is not your age, and she’s pregnant, she wants to do a wedding next week.’ I’m just tired of life already because why would my own mother be pushing me to marriage when I haven’t achieved anything in my life? Just this little online business I’m doing to feed myself. All her thinking is just to get married. Please, I need your advice. I don’t know what I can do again.
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