Hello!! So I’m currently dating a man but he has 2 wives. In our side that’s okay (he’s Muslim). Everyone around is aware I’m his girlfriend, his wives included. He’s rich enough but I think he’s trying to make me fall in love with him well so I can pity him. I told him I wanted to go on a trip in March. I asked for $15k and got only $10k. He said he was working on things. He gave me money for an apartment, but not enough for furnishing. Last week I asked for N5 million for some things. He said he had salaries to pay and sent N500k. If anyone should be understanding, it’s his wives. I hate that I consider him sometimes. He can’t say he doesn’t have at least N2 million to spare. He’s sweet and overly obsessive. If you want me to be around you all the time and be in your space, shouldn’t you do all I ask? I don’t know if I’m pitying him because he’s young or not, but I need advice from richer people or people who get gifted more.
How would someone talk to you to make you spend more? Also, how do you ask for more and persist to get it? I have a business already and I’ve added more of his money into it. I have an apartment, I work in his company. I’m okay. Next thing I want is a car and I don’t want him to now get something less than I want. Plus, I want him to pay for my master’s in the UK and get me an apartment in central London. I’m not interested in marrying him because I want to focus on my career honestly. I don’t want to be a housewife. How do I ask for more and get it? Please I don’t want juju advice.
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