I’m dating a married man. You all can judge me; I will take all the insults, but honestly, it wasn’t my fault. This guy is a perfect gentleman. He gives me respect, and peace, and treats me well. He takes care of me financially and emotionally. If he doesn’t tell you that he’s married, you won’t know because he’s still very young. I had no intention of falling in love with him when we started, but right now I am madly in love with him. He loves me so much that he’s willing to do anything just to keep me. We have been dating for almost a year now. His wife knows about me, but he doesn’t care. He always tells me to ignore her whenever she attacks me (through text). Honestly, I’ve tried to end things with him because I know what I am doing isn’t right, but it’s not easy because I’ve already fallen in love with him so much. And he isn’t helping matters because he’s all over me. In fact, he’s obsessed with me.
My problem now is that he’s becoming too jealous, and I don’t like it. He doesn’t want me to go on dates, he doesn’t want me to have a boyfriend, he doesn’t want me to have anything to do with any other man. Whenever I go out, he’s always asking where I am and who I am with. If I go out with any guy, he gets mad, like really mad. He’s so jealous of seeing me with someone else. He’s always monitoring me on social media to know where I am or who I am with. I don’t know why he’s acting this way. Please, nobody should tell me to ask him to marry me as his second wife because I am not ready for marriage anytime soon. I’m still very young. So my question is, what would make a married man stop his side chick from having her own man? I don’t understand. What could be the reason?