I had this girl I was dating way back in 2018 whom I loved so much, and I gave my all to her at that time. She was seeking admission to the university then, but we were cool. This girl was the only one I introduced to my mom, and I told her to pray about her because she’s a prophetess. Besides that, everyone in my family knows her, and I was planning to make her my wife. To cut a long story short, she gained admission to the university still in the same state, and everything about her changed. That’s how I lost this girl to another guy in school. I was so hurt that for the first time in my life, I cried and almost cried my eyes out alone in a four-bed flat. So I pleaded and invited her over to my mom’s church because she’s a founder and told my mom to beg her for me just so she could reconsider. She respected my mom by saying she would think about it, but when we left, she stood her ground.
So I moved on by relocating to Ibadan and was single for two years. I am not the kind of guy who sleeps around with different girls because I’m from a Christian home. The truth is I am not a sex freak type of guy, but with this girl, I was a totally different person because I could have sex with her every day. I’m a Beautician, so I got into the talking stage with one of my customers in 2021, and I must say this girl is a wife material 1000%, but she’s not as beautiful as I would like my wife to be. Because my immediate brother was already married and had had a baby, and my mom had been pressuring me to settle down and start a family, being the firstborn, I eventually got engaged with this customer, and now we have a baby boy. Now the truth is, ever since I’ve been with this girl, I have never cheated, and I swear it.
Plus, I met her as a virgin, but the problem is I am not enjoying my sex life with her because we have sex once a month or once every two months, and sometimes she’s okay with it. I can say with my full chest that she’s not cheating, and I love her. I feel like exploring and finding someone with whom I can enjoy sex because, after my so-called ex, the only one I have laid with is my wife. I sincerely want to ask you guys to please advise me or if there is anything I can do, or if there is any advice you guys can give. Lately, the kind of attraction I feel when I see other girls, I don’t even feel it for my wife. I just don’t know what is wrong with me.
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