My long-distance boyfriend broke up with me for reasons best known to him. It was really hard moving on. I live alone; I don’t talk to people in my hostel nor give anyone attention in class. You see, my bestie and I just separated, so it’s been really hard for me to make a new female friend because of the pain I went through and how long it took me to recover. Back to my boyfriend matter: After a week of ignoring each other, we both decided that it would be best to separate, which we did. I was really pained and so hurt; I cried everywhere—when I say everywhere, I mean in class, in my room, everywhere. I even isolated myself and missed a few classes because my mental health was really affected.
So there’s this 500-level guy who used to pet me and forced me to come out to chill. One night, we were out, and I burst into tears for no reason. He couldn’t let me go home in that state alone, so he took me back to my hostel. I begged him to stay the night because I wasn’t sure if I would cope till the next morning. He stayed the night, and one thing led to another, and we had s£x. The next morning, I made it clear to him that it wouldn’t be more than that—I wasn’t interested in a relationship or anything else with him, and he was cool with it. We continued being friends, then he introduced me to his friend, who was single.
I liked the friend, and the friend was also there when I was crying the other night. Long story short, his friend and I started dating, and trust me, this guy is so loving, nice, and calm. I even stopped sleeping in my hostel just to sleep at his place. We got pretty close and all, but unknown to me, the 500-level guy who I had s£x with started catching feelings for me. Like how? When? How? I simply told him things wouldn’t work out. This guy I’m dating recently suspected that something happened between us because he used to go through my chats with his friend, both on Instagram and WhatsApp. My world came crumbling down when the 500-level guy told his friend that we had s£x and showed him the chats. I was dumbfounded.
I cried bitterly and begged him not to leave me, that I was too attached to him and would go mental if he left, but he didn’t. My Rantandtalkz family, would you guys believe I went to lock him? 🥺 Something I never imagined I would ever do to a guy in this life. Right now, as I’m writing this, I’m so confused and scared that the locking won’t work because they told me it would start working after 3 days. Today is the second day, and I pray tomorrow, being the last, it will start working because I’m really scared that I shouldn’t have wasted money. If only I didn’t sleep with his friend, things would be going smoothly between us. But this guy, I must have him through hook or crook. Please don’t judge me; I’m just scared and confused. So my question now is, how does locking work? Can you lock your ex to come back? I’m just curious.
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