There’s this sweet guy I met last year. He had a girlfriend at the time we started the relationship, but we were both in love with each other and wanted each other. Here’s the mistake I made—I should have made sure he broke up with the girl before dating him. He said he was tired of the girl, that he fell out of love because she was cheating and disrespectful, and he didn’t know how to tell her he wanted to break up. He said she was a problematic person and that if he broke up with her, she would start saying she wanted to kee herself. So, he found me, and we started dating. Along the line, she found out about us in April because the guy had already stopped giving her attention. He was showing her obvious signs, but she didn’t want to accept the fact that he didn’t like her anymore. She got angry and started threatening me, saying she would beat me and all because I “snatched” her boyfriend. That eventually got settled. Two weeks ago, the guy finally had the courage to break up with her because he wanted to be with me alone. Then, this girl started saying she would kee herself.
She entered my DM and started cur$!ng me and my family, saying I was the problem in their relationship and that she was going to kee me, that I should watch my back. Her friends also said they would beat and disgrace me. They started insulting my family, saying I had to break up with the guy. Me and this guy have gone far in our relationship, and we are willing and ready to take it further because he respects and loves me a lot. Also, the guy had serious issues one year ago, and the girl literally texted me, saying my family should be ready to take responsibility because the issue would come back. Now, I heard that she has gone to report me to her woli because she attends a white garment church and that she will deal with me spiritually. Honestly, I’m scared, and I don’t feel safe anymore. She’s making the relationship look like a do-or-die affair—that the guy has to date her by fire by force, or else there will be war. What can I do? Do you think she’s just bluffing about dealing with me spiritually? Because that’s very scary.
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