I am a 20-year-old girl currently in 300 level. Earlier this year, I met this man in his early 40s who asked me out. He seemed really interested in me, so I decided to give him a try. Ever since then, this man has been nothing but a God-sent in my life. I have known no lack since I met him. But the problem is that he has a little girl, which a white woman gave birth to for him. Mind you, they are not married. He asked to see my parents, and I took him to meet them. He also introduced me to his family, so our relationship is serious.
However, he’s asking me to give him a child, which I am not ready for until after school. This is not really the problem though—he’s asking that I get pregnant first before he does the marital rites, which I’m skeptical about. I do love him so much, but on this, I really do not know what to do. I really want to do life with him, but definitely not by getting pregnant first. Please, guys, what do you advise I do?
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