Hello Rantz fam. Please, y’all should read and don’t judge. I’m only seeking advice. I’m in a relationship that was four years last November. A lot has happened in the relationship, but I just endured it all in the name of love. I love my guy, and I’m obsessed with him. During the second year of the relationship, he rented an apartment, and I started visiting him at home and spending time with him. That was when he started showing his real color. I saw original shege (begging for what I didn’t do or begging if I caught him cheating and he started gaslighting), but I didn’t take any of this too seriously because I was in love. Note: He cheated on me countless times. I would just cry and lock up. Some sef, I would still be the one to beg. Fast forward to December 2023, we were together in an apartment. My ex-boyfriend called me, and I didn’t pick up because I was also confused about why he called after a long breakup.
My man asked me who the person was, and immediately, I told him the truth. I explained that it was through my friend we talked, and it was just greetings (I didn’t lie about this part). He’s someone I haven’t set eyes on since we broke up, so I explained to my man that I was also confused about why he called. Omo, I chop the beating of my life that day because my man asked why his number was still saved on my phone. I explained again that this guy in question, I never talked to him nor chatted with him on WhatsApp. Long story short, yesterday, my man texted me, saying his eyes were full, that people around him were saying I was cheating and doing this and that—without any evidence! This is a guy who doesn’t allow me to go out, post myself on social media, or even talk to guys on WhatsApp. Nothing wey I no use swear for this guy, but he just said he wanted a breakup. I forgot to add that this is the person I had three abortions for and one miscarriage.
Now, he’s telling me he wants to break up, that he doesn’t trust me anymore since the day my ex called me. To be sincere, I have never cheated on this guy before. I never even explored—my eyes never open ooo! So, I just want you guys’ opinion. Does he really deserve me? Is it because of the wrong accusations people are putting on me that he wants to leave, or does he just not want me anymore? Because the people he’s talking about sef, I don’t even know them.
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