Now that I see it clearly, I don’t know what to do. This guy literally suffered. So sad. His dad left his mom for another woman. That thing is emotionally draining. I couldn’t bear to see my man with another girl; now imagine his mom losing her own man to another woman for more than 5 years. He is the last born, and he really loves his mom. He has been fighting that pain all his life. Now imagine a woman telling him to come and marry her, Dey play! Jokes apart, I really feel for him. Most times when I tell myself that I will stop talking to him, whenever I remember his story, I will just try to motivate him. He is a really strong guy; nobody deserves such treatment. He couldn’t bond much with his dad, and I needed him to bond with our child. It’s so sad. He had restricted himself to hustling for himself because if he doesn’t, e fit no get that luxurious life wey him want. No wonder that he doesn’t waste away his time at all. He is not a lazy guy; he hates lazy people sef.
I hope and pray that GOD will heal his heart. I also pray that GOD gives him the privilege to meet people that would show him true love. This guy is the strongest man ever. I regret insulting him back when he insulted me, but trust me, his insults were heavy too, so we both were wrong actually. Anyway, may GOD heal his mom’s heart as well in Jesus Name. I thought that the woman was strict, but now I get why she is not open to communication. She is truly going through a lot; few of her frenemies too must have mocked her in the past too. So, it will be hard for her to want to bond with anybody. Na everybody get their own for body true true. My own mom self get her own…. “But nah, who cast her own fuck up oh. Na why I dey always fear men. I don’t h8te them because they also have their own story for playing with girls’ hearts, but that thing is not healthy, I swear. It’s not easy. Wo, let me go drink water again to calm my body. He is now my ex though, and we are co-parenting well. I can only wish him well from afar; the co-parenting will not be t0xic that way.
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