I caught my 4-month-old boyfriend chatting with his 3-year-old ex, exchanging sweet messages because we both have access to our phones. He apologized and told me to move on from it and focus on him. Then he changed his phone password and removed my face from his Face ID. But you know, as a lady, jealousy is surely certain. He told me his relationship with her is just a misery that I can’t understand. Even his friend confirmed they aren’t dating. He is so obsessed with her even though the girl has a 4-year relationship.
Ever since I caught him, he changed. He is no longer the loving guy I fell in love with. He no longer texts and calls are reduced. I now pile up messages for him, yet he won’t reply to me. So after a long talk, he told me the girl was never an ex and she has been his best friend, blah blah blah. And the girl has always cared for him. If she comes over to his place, she will get whatever he wants to eat and gift him, so he can’t leave the girl even when he knows she has a boyfriend. He doesn’t mind losing our relationship because of the girl.
The funniest part of it… I texted my guy for a whole day, but he didn’t reply to me. Called him several times, but he didn’t pick up as well. On getting to his place, he was just smiling and he never gave me the reason he didn’t reply to my texts or pick up his calls. Meanwhile, the girl’s message kept popping up and he was replying to her, even having the girl chat pinned. Please, I need your advice cause I can’t take it anymore; it’s getting too much. He’s placing the girl over me. He told me to work on things that caused the sudden change, and we are good. Please, what should I do? Should I walk away from the relationship, or I should give him the 1-week break he asked for and change the things he complained about?