Hello, everyone, I’d like your opinion, please. I’m 24 years old, and I have a boyfriend. Our relationship isn’t even a year old yet, but he happens to be the main financial support for his family. Note that he’s not the eldest, nor is he financially independent, but he’s responsible and manages on his own. The issue is that his family members assume he has money because he’s responsible and supportive. His mom, in particular, calls him literally every day for money, even if he’s already expressed his financial state. If she calls him in the morning for money and he says he can’t provide it, she will call again in the afternoon. Sometimes, I wonder if that is how it is easy to make money. He often gives in, even when it’s difficult for him.
While it’s understandable she’s his mother, it’s challenging when she gets upset if he can’t provide. It baffles me how she gets annoyed when he doesn’t have money and he can’t provide for her at that moment. I feel she lacks consideration from my perspective. He looks after his family, even his siblings, and I sometimes feel sorry for him because his money doesn’t last. This boy will sit me down and tell me how bills are choking him, sometimes to ask him for money myself is always a problem. Thank God, I have a business; my ex would have laughed at me. Is this situation normal? Because we don’t do like this in our own family. Would it be wise to marry into this family? I’d appreciate your opinions. Thank you.
Also Read: Can I Breakup with Her Just Because of Body Odor?