I never thought I would give love a chance again since my last relationship in 2022. I met this guy and he asked me out. It took a while before accepting, ’cause I was scared of getting hurt. Everyone knows me as a lover girl; once I’m in, that’s it. When we started dating, I noticed that he’s always having issues with other girls, like a girl coming to knock on his door while I’m there, in which I knew that it’s not right at all and I would want to leave, but he keeps swearing he has nothing to do with them. I met all his friends and kinda don’t like their lifestyle, especially how they change women. By this time, it was already too late, ’cause I was in love with him. We talk most of the time when I’m not with him and I spend a lot of time with him. It was as if we’re inseparable. I traveled to Naija in July last year. On last Christmas Eve, we were on the phone throughout, talking about how we met and the memories of how we started. He then said he would pick me from my place to go to market to get things for Christmas. To cut the long story short, after the Christmas dinner I noticed he was on his phone chatting,
and with the body language I could feel that something was not right. We’ve been dating for a year now; later at night I went to check his phone only for me to find out that he got his ex pregnant. She’s 4 months gone and he’s dating a lot of girls, telling them he loves them. Coincidentally, this girl that is pregnant showed up that night. I was like a dream. I was angry; I shouted, and, I cried. I carried my bag and went home and left all of them there. I got home and he started calling, saying that she’s not pregnant, she’s only making drama, that he chose me because he loves me. I know y’all will say move on, but it’s not easy. I love this guy. He told me he blocked her and warned her not to come to his place again, only for me to go there again and see the girl’s message coming on his phone again. It hurt so bad. I really wanna love someone, ’cause right now this is too much for me to handle. I’ve been so good to this guy. I met him at his lowest time and I was there for him, only for him to treat me this way. I can’t even sleep. My heart is heavy.
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