I’m really confused and sad at the moment. I happened to come across a video of a girl talking about how her father is wealthy and does not want her mother to do chores around the house. He hired staff that do all the house chores. Without even thinking about it, I forwarded it to my boyfriend and asked him what he thought about it. He goes on and tells me frankly that he can’t hire staff for household chores even if he’s a trillionaire. I was confused for a moment, and I said to him, “I mean, we can afford it, so why not? Why stress ourselves for something that we can just pay and staff will get it done for us?” Then he repeated adamantly that even if he’s a trillionaire, he’d rather eat out than have someone else make his food in his home, aside from his wife. That sounds a bit weird because I don’t see the difference, but anyway, I understand the food part. What I do not understand is how he claims he loves and cherishes me but still wants me to do all the chores when we can afford to pay workers who can do it. He doesn’t even sound as if he would love to help out. I mean, we would surely have kids, and that would mean more chores and workload, but this guy said he would rather eat out than make food for us if I’m too tired to make it. Should I just ignore this? Or is it a red flag that I should take note of? All these chores are something I can do and will do if I want, but why go through all that stress alone if I can have someone help out? Note that I do go to his place for holidays, and he helps out occasionally.
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