I have been dating this guy for less than 4 months. This guy has been good to me, I won’t lie (he hardly posts anything on his socials, but he posts me and shows me off). Literally, everyone around him knows we are together. He loves and respects me, and he provides for me, and he has never said no to anything I ask for. The one time he even said no, he still provided it for me. And he also apologizes to me even when he’s not wrong so peace can reign. Honestly, it was all lovey-dovey with us until about a month ago. We started having issues with communication.
We went from talking all day to talking only at night or so. I understood, though, because he’s busy with work and stuff, but he made time for me too. We went on dates and all of that. Not until 3 weeks ago, I checked his phone and saw he took a girl out (pictures). I confronted him, and he deleted the pictures and claimed I saw nothing. I know the girl in question, and for the first time in my life, I felt the urge to find her contact and ask her about him, but I didn’t. I can’t m£ss up like that, so I just let it go even though it made me tense. Recently, I asked him for money to make braids, and he sent me N20k.
To be honest, it wasn’t enough, so I told him in the most polite way possible. He cut the call on me, and we didn’t speak for that day and the next. I called him on the 3rd day, and he told me he’s been angry at me. He feels he gave me way too much comfort and that I had the guts to tell him the money he gave me wasn’t enough. He said he was disappointed, and I apologized to him because I felt bad. The next day, he called me and said he had given our relationship a serious thought and thinks we should go on a break. He said I don’t cook for him even when I visit, that I only clean the room when he asks me to, and upon that, I still have the guts to feel entitled.
Before you judge me, please know I definitely clean when I visit without him asking me to. That aspect is a total lie. I’ve only been to his house about 5 to 7 times, and the one time I even offered to cook, he declined, so I just let it be. Other times we hung out were in hotels when we went on dates. I feel like he wants to use this as an excuse to break up with me. I cried and apologized and even told him to give me a chance to make it up to him, but he insists we must go on a break. I really don’t want to start sending him countless texts or disturbing him, so I won’t look desperate.
My plan is to leave him alone for a week to see how things will play out, but I want to know what you guys think. I seriously need advice on how to go about the situation. I don’t mind getting insults from you guys; just let me know what you would do if you were in my shoes. Thank you.
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