So, I’m a 31-year-old smallish lady. You know those kinds of people that money doesn’t show on their body? No matter what I do, I always end up looking like a house girl. When I moved into the place I stay, for like a year, the security men kept toasting me, thinking I was a house girl, until they found out I wasn’t. In fact, I own a business, and when customers come, they’d be calling me “sales girl” and calling my staff “aunty.” Because of that, I told my staff to start wearing uniforms. But still, no single respect. I have money. Even if I wear wigs, I’d look like mgbeke feeling funky. I said, “Let me be wearing heels to the store,” but yet, it doesn’t change anything. I’ve tried adding weight, yet it’s difficult for me. I have up to N3 million in my savings account, but if you see me, you’d think I don’t even have up to N50k.
The worst part is that clothes don’t even fit me—flat a$$, plus a little stomach due to overeating in my attempt to get fat, and I’m dark-skinned. Even the skincare I use doesn’t do anything. I can’t even remember the last time someone toasted me. Na only all those touts that’ll be saying “fine girl”—you just know they say it for saying sake. That customer calling me “sales girl” pains me a lot, I won’t lie. It happens a lot. At one point, my staff said, “That’s our madam o!” The woman looked me from head to toe. I was so embarrassed. What do I do? My hair is always made—either braids or I wear a small wig. I dress well to my own knowledge, but yet… I obviously can’t change how God made me. I’m just worried. Don’t know what else to do or if anyone has any advice.
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