Did I disrespect my husband, and am I at fault? Please, everyone in the house, I always carry my son to school every day, and I asked my husband to take him to school for just one day. He started fighting me, saying I wanted to turn him into a gbewudani (woman wrapper). He started saying all sorts of things like that’s how women start until they turn him a man into a nanny. He said he would call my mom and accuse me of being proud. He asked, “What if I get money?” and went on and on about how he’s the one feeding me. He even said he already has plan B. This isn’t the first time in our arguments that he’s mentioned having a backup plan. I told him he was too old for all this. He started packing his clothes to leave the house, saying I will suffer, and he will make sure I regret this, among other things.
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Doing all of these just because you asked him to take your child to school is irrational and speaks a lot. I also think there is more to his reaction than just taking your child to school. You might want to go back and search within yourself if you’re not the problem. If you are, change. If you’re not, you can report him to a respected elder within the family. Please, don’t him report to a pastor or Alfa.