I’m 30 years old, married, no kids yet. I dated my husband for 4 years before we married. He cheated on me when we were still dating with a friend of mine, and I cheated back with his secondary school mate. Before this, he had been cheating with numerous girls, and I decided to pay back, but my payback was more painful. This man cried for days, but we finally settled. We got married last year, and this trust issue keeps coming up from time to time. He doesn’t let me touch his phone. It’s obvious I still don’t trust him, even though he keeps telling me he’s not doing anything outside.
He recently went through my phone because we had another issue concerning his obsessed ex-girlfriend of 4 years, and he found out I told my friend I don’t love him again and that I have someone who stays in Canada I love and I will be relocating if it works out. My husband cried and hasn’t been able to get over it, even after I told him I said it because I was angry and there’s actually nobody. He couldn’t find anything in my phone to pin this statement I made to my friend.
For some days, he has been giving some attitude, and I decided to find out what was wrong—only for my husband to bring up the relocation to Canada with my side man again. There’s no side man, but he feels I’m lying. We had an argument yesterday, and he left the house and slept out. I just tire. Men really can’t take what they dish out. Though I feel for him, it’s funny because I just burst out laughing when I think about it. I don’t know what to do, and I don’t want to invite a third party.
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