My husband is a chronic liar and a cheat in the guise of a second wife. I have been married close to 2 years and 11 months since sharing this post. And this night that I have to share with the public, I have no one else to share with again. Everybody seems tired of me reporting and thinks I am the one with the problem. My husband gave me this hint that he had seen someone (they are talking about taking her in as a second wife) barely 1 month after our aqid Nikkah (tying the knot) and then, I caused a whole lot of drama. But instead of him seeing from my point of view and elders’ admonition to him to be patient, I have been the one suffering for it lowkey. My husband is a very stingy person and doesn’t have the initiative of his own to know what I want and need as his wife, especially financially, except for sex.
Even with our 2-year-old son, he doesn’t know what to gift him or buy for him until I say so to him. I have been told severally to look away, but my feelings keep getting hurt. I can’t leave and cause my children confusion in the future because of a cheating husband. I don’t know how to look away from his side, maybe because I don’t have any friends. I am getting depressed. I feel so lonely even while we are together. I don’t know what to do anymore. NB: I have a business running in case you want to tell me to find something to do. I dipped myself into lots of things just not to think about him, but each time he gets really attached to someone and the person already agrees to his proposal, my instinct and body do tell me. And once I confirm it, I won’t be able to stop myself until I see and feel they aren’t together intimately anymore.
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