I dated my boyfriend two years ago, though he is older than me. When I met him, he told me he had a girlfriend—not married sha. I got pregnant for him last year, and I told him I wanted to abort the baby, but he said no, that he needed the child so much. We did our introduction last year, which his mom said we should do in a parlor way because of his girlfriend. He takes good care of me, but late last year, he reduced the attention he gave me and focused on his girlfriend, who stays in his house, which frustrated me. So, one day, I decided to message that so-called girlfriend and asked her some questions.
To my greatest surprise, this lady told me she was married to him. I asked my husband, and he said she was only a mere girlfriend to him. I messaged her a second time, telling her that her husband had already gotten another woman pregnant outside. Naso this woman showed this man all the chats I had been sending her. Naso this man’s mom called me and started insulting me, saying I shouldn’t have done that, that they were planning to tell the lady after I gave birth. Naso this man came home and started insulting me. Please, I need advice. Am I wrong for messaging the lady in the first place?
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