I am sending this to know about my fellow Rantandtalkz fam’s opinions on what to do. I know some people might say, ‘Dis one no get problem,’ na why he dey rant about height. I am an introvert, doing well for myself (I no get like that, but God is good). So this is it: I am always attracted to younger girls of 19 and above because some of them don’t have that big stature. Plus, you know, they’re still young and you can easily talk to them, and they’ll listen. I’m not saying I am looking for who to control, before commenters start twisting it to something else.
I feel worried and ashamed of myself that I can’t walk up to a girl of my age group. Like, why can’t I just approach someone of my age? They’re usually tall and have a big stature, even if I am much older than them (I am 25+). But this small stature of mine makes me feel like she won’t want to answer me based on my height. Sometimes, I would see my younger brothers talking to girls I should be talking to (they might be in the same age range), and I will be like, ‘make me sef try.’ Suddenly that thought will come again and be like, ‘omo shey I never dey pass my boundary like this.’
As it is now, I am looking for a date, like a serious relationship, but to approach someone that I like is one big issue for me. I just want to know what I need to do to get this feeling off my chest. I see my mates talking to girls that I can’t even approach those girls on a normal day. I am feeling really bad, please help me!
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