What’s your take on a lady having a male bestie? I have been dating this girl for the past 9 months. I genuinely love this girl and want her to be a part of me forever. I always do everything she wants for her, buy her expensive hair and all. But there is a guy my woman always calls her bestie that she talks to every day, every night. The guy is married with 2 kids, he stays in Canada. He always does everything my girl also wants, like we’re in competition. If I don’t give my woman money, the guy will give her. I have been suspecting maybe the guy and my woman are dating because how will a guy that you said you’re not dating always want to do more than your boyfriend you claim you love? Last week, I gave my woman N200k, and I noticed the guy also gave her N300k.
Please, can just a friend be doing this when he has his own family? But she keeps saying they are friends and all. I read her text one day when the guy was talking about n#des, and he’s coming to Nigeria soon, that they’re going to be together in Lagos for a few days. I feel like both of them are in a serious relationship, and I’m just the side nigga. I just want to know if I’m wasting my time or something. Spending on her is not my problem at all, my own problem and what I’m scared of is, “I just don’t want to be wasting my time on someone who’s not serious about me.” Please help me, my dear Rantandtalkz family.
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