There is this girl I have been dating for like 8 months now, I’m 24 she is 19. She wasn’t a virgin when I met her and she told me her ex-boyfriend deflowered her, I was cool with it cause it’s normal. Then after an 8-month relationship with her, she suddenly told me she wanted to confess a matter she had been keeping from me, and then I asked. She said it was her godfather (adopted father) that deflowered her when she was 14, she has been living with her godfather (adopted father) up till now.
I couldn’t believe it at first cause I really respect this man a lot cause he is a pastor. She even said he was still sleeping with him even when I was dating her but she told me she already stopped him from having intercourse with her. I felt broken. I was planning this girl as my future wife. I don’t know what to do, is it still advisable to continue dating her, or what do you think my family? I need una advise. Note: ever since that happened to her she hasn’t informed her brothers or her mum and I can’t be the one explaining that. She just kept it a secret. What can I do?
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