I am a 28-year-old guy. Back in school, six years ago, I impregnated a lady. She has a son for me. My son is five years old now. But this lady was so arrogant, not submissive, she is too harsh, she cheated a lot — I caught her time without number. I regret my life having a baby with her then, but at least I have to move on with my life. My parents advised me to just move on. Though we do communicate sometimes, there’s no feeling attached — just for me to check on my son, that’s all. After many years, I found a lady I love. I love this girl, though we are not in the same state, but at least we see each other twice a month because of the nature of our jobs. But this girl feels insecure around me. She stalks me too much. She complains to the extent I almost gave up on her. Whenever I invite her over to my house, she will be like, “Joshua, I am looking for what will make me cry.”
She is too obsessed and overprotective. Though I don’t have much money with me because I just finished constructing my hotel, I don’t know why she keeps troubling me because of my ex. I cry severely within because of this lady’s frustration. I took her home, introduced her to my family. My mom personally talked to her, talked to her like a daughter, showed her love, and most of the time she calls her often just to check on this lady. But the issue I have now is that she never believes I love her. She believes I still have something to do with my ex. Should I move on and search for another lady, or should I stay?
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