I have been dating this girl for over 3 years now and all I feel rn is heartbroken and disappointed. I always give this girl everything she want and I feel like she needed, even use to credit her N50k more than 3 times in a week at times. But unfortunate for me, she’s in love with her ex. I don’t know what woman really want fr fr, I don’t. I’ve never been insecure in my life, not until last year when I saw one of her friend begging her to date this guy back. But before that, this guy has tried so many things to have her back, even blackmailed her while lying to her that it’s her ex (the guy ex) that’s doing all that. But man to man, I know. I couldn’t confront her cos she didn’t tell me about it. I read it on her phone without her knowing. Then late last year, I was kinda broke so I pour all my attention into my work so I can come out with better profit and all. During that period, this guy has been coming to my gf house to sleep over. Till one faithful day, she called me on VC cos we normally do almost every time. She was sitting outside, which is unusual of her, started telling me she love me and all.
That’s how we use to do tho, but I know something was odd. So I asked her what’s she doing outside. She said she flooded her apartment but I wasn’t having it. I told her to go inside and turn the camera to back camera while going inside. She did, but when she’s about to enter the room, she switched it to front camera. I was annoyed cos I already knew something was odd. I cut the call and never talk about it, not until she came to my side. When I took her phone (mind you she have access to my phone and I did as well), I went through her Snapchat. That was where I know there was someone there in the room with her that day. I was very very mad and nearly go insane, even got panic attack that day. But I let it slide cos I was disappointed to the core. But since then, each time I checked my gf phone, I always see her chatting with this so-called ex guy and all. I told her to block him countless times. She insisted there’s nothing between them anymore. Not until one day I told her if she can’t block him then I’m done with the relationship. Not that I can’t let go of her, but I loved her more than anything ‘cause we’ve been dating before I became someone.
So why can’t I just be with her when I’m gradually becoming the person I’ve always wanted to be? But upon everything I always do for this girl, she still keep going back to her ex. Fast forward to February, we had a serious fight which almost lead to breakup. Not almost sef, we broke up, just came back after some weeks. Will you believe this girl still go meet this so-called ex and that one sent N1k first, and then the second day send N14k to my gf? While me, I always press N100k plus, minimal of N50k every blessed week for upkeep. I’ve never come out here to rant but before I can do this, know that I’m totally heartbroken ‘cause there’s nothing anybody can tell me. I’ll never forgive this girl in my life. Well, she’s still at my side, just waiting for her to go back to her side tomorrow then block her on all social media. Omoooh don’t ever trust a girl bro. If you have money, f¥ck any girl you like and move on. That’s my advice to all brothers out there. Trust me, I’ll never forgive you for this last thing you did to me.
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