Please fam I need your advice on this. I have a friend who has been married for about 9 years now. She met this man at a very young age, around the age of 20, and had her first child for this man at the age of 23. But this marriage has never been rosy even with all the money the man has. Recently, the wife (my friend) found out that her husband has been dating another girl, and the funny thing is that even her husband’s friends have told her the same thing. According to them, the girl in question has gone diabolical and might soon chase my friend out of her home. My friend had 3 kids for this man and she’s also training the man’s stepchildren too, so altogether there are 5 children in the house. My friend doesn’t cheat, she’s the kindest and most loyal person I’ve ever met. While being loyal, the husband on the other hand comes back around 1am, sometimes 2am. Now my problem is that my friend does nothing but cry, she can’t even confront her husband and I won’t lie fam, her marriage might not see the end of this year. I really want to advise her but I’m scared. I don’t believe in diabolical things and I’ve never advised anyone to do it, but I want to advise her to save. She knows nothing about her husband’s business and she spent so much. God knows if her husband chases her from the house, I’m not sure she’ll be able to survive because she solely depends on her husband. She’s lazy and doesn’t take things seriously. I’ve heard people talk about her husband even at food joints, someone even called our other friend and was telling us to pray for her marriage. I really want her to be happy but I don’t know how to tell her to save as much as she can before anything happens because it’s so obvious that her husband’s sidekick wants to take her home away from her. Fam, I’m so scared for my friend, I don’t know if I should give her my own piece of advice because she’s 8 years older than I am and I don’t know how she’ll take it. She really loves her husband so much and if this marriage ends, it’ll affect her greatly. I feel for her, if it was me I would have walked out a long time ago. Please, what’s the best way to advise my friend, considering the fact that I’m single and I don’t want her to see the advice as an insult or me trying to involve myself in her family issues. Help me out, I’ll be in the comments section.
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