There’s a girl I know right from ND days, but we weren’t close ’cause I don’t like keeping friends, and I was big on minding my business. Fast forward to when we resumed for HND, we became friends. Along the line, I noticed she doesn’t know how to talk; she can rubbish you in public. Eventually, she did one I couldn’t accept. I changed it for her and warned her not to talk to me like that again. She apologized, and we moved on. One fateful day, we had an outing. This Muslim wolimoh… I was putting on a gown and carrying a black bag. When we met at the party ’cause we went separately, the next thing she said was, ‘I don know say na this gown you go wear. Shey you no get another one ni?’ As if that wasn’t enough, she said another one again, ‘Thank God say you buy this bag.
Wetin you for Dey carry, everybody don know you with this bag.’ I was so pained. My mood has changed, and we weren’t the only ones there. Other people were there, and I’m sure they would have heard what she said, but I couldn’t say anything. Tears were about to drop from my eyes, but I had to hold it. The funny part of it was that she was laughing as if it was funny, and I warned her severally not to talk to me like that in public. To be honest with you guys, I got home that day and cried, but I have become distant from her. Not like we don’t talk, we only talk when necessary, but the relationship is nothing as it used to be. Just that these days she’s been in my thoughts. I want to ask if I should keep the energy going or try and make our relationship what it used to be.
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