I saw a story here about a lady who has been in a 5-year friendship with a guy and then asked him out. My story is quite similar. I had been in a relationship for almost 5 years now. The first 3 years were good, but then my boyfriend started misbehaving. This is someone I support in every aspect of his life. He’s not very, very rich and doesn’t provide everything I need 100%, but he does the little he can, and I appreciate him. It started when he began saying I’m not respectful. Any little arguments we have, he will tell me I’m not the type of lady he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
This really affected me so much, I started having mental health issues. Sometimes he will say he’s no longer interested, especially when he’s broke, and I’ll beg and beg for just no reason. And he’s not cheating… I’m 100% sure of that. Sometimes he will say I will never find a guy like him if he breaks up with me, he talks down on me a lot. Fast forward to the middle of last year, he told me he was no longer interested again, and I just locked up and blocked him everywhere. I have a male friend, we’ve been friends for 5 years… throughout those years, he never said anything sexual or dating… it was just friendship… when we hang out once a year, it’s always in a public space.
One day I just randomly told him I’m now single, he knew about my relationship before. He was so surprised, then he told me he’s also single and has been for like 3 months. I also knew his girlfriend then. Days later, he said he really wanted us to be together, that he knew how loyal and good a girl I am… asked me out and all. I like him, he’s a very sweet guy. I told him I’ll think about it, a few days later, my ex came to start begging me, that he’s changed, etc., and he’ll be better. Right now, I’m confused. Should I go back to my ex or go ahead with this my friend?
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