I’ve been with this girl for over 5 years now. The first 4 months were so calm! I’ve never felt anything like it. It was my first time being in love, and I didn’t want that feeling to end. Fast forward to after she resumed school, she changed all of a sudden, started having anger issues. My parents had issues at that time too. I’m the first son, and I have 3 other younger sisters. It was so much on me at that time, my blood pressure started increasing. After a year, I caught her cheating, and I never even knew she was doing stuff with her ex in school.
She told me she was a virgin. Omo, me sef stayed a virgin, as per say, I wanted to make her comfortable in our space. She never lacked whatever I could afford. We dated for two years, and she cheated 3 times. We were so young, but we had dreams. We had dreams to go study nursing abroad, and we made it happen. She cheated on me about 5 times, and I was loyal to her throughout the whole time.
She’d apologize, cry, fall sick, get diagnosed with depression, but omo, this girl, I no just sabi. She ruined my mental health. I got sick. My doctor told me she wasn’t good for my health and it was k•|ling me. I developed so many other health issues, but it is what it is. I don’t even know what women want anymore. All I wanted was to be happy and to make her happy. We got back together early this year. So many things have changed about her, but I don’t even know if giving her another chance is the right thing to do.
She has been loyal this whole time, stopped acting immature, and now she’s always about getting married, wanting to support me in any way—money, anything. I’m not broke either. I take her on vacations that require a passport and do every other little thing I think a man should do for his girl. But whenever this girl gets mad at me, omo, she shuts me out.
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