My fiancée and I have been together for about 2 years now, and we’ve been living together for about a year after both families met and we started working on wedding plans. I have always loved her and showed kindness. Lately, I’ve noticed that when I’m not financially capable of fixing some things in the house, she comes through. But her countenance and words often carry a sense of pride. Every time there’s a little issue between us, and most of the issues come up whenever she does something I don’t like, I react, and she capitalizes on my reaction. She never acknowledges her actions that triggered the reaction. Now, it seems I’m the only one serious about the marriage.
Every little quarrel we have, she mentions not wanting to get married or says that if not for the fact she wants 1 or 2 children, she’d just live her life. I love family and want to be more like my father. Her father once failed her family, and I come from a home where no one jokes with my father. She’s also had relationships where every guy constantly cheated on her. Her reactions to petty arguments are always negative towards men, always accusing me of cheating despite my loyalty. I’m just tired and confused about what to do. There are so many other things about her behavior towards men that are giving me second thoughts.
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