My father is a very promiscuous man, a very polygamous man, and a very fetish man that uses all his money to do charms, all in the name of finding money. He’s a Muslim. At close to 60 years, this man still gives birth to children all around—14 children in this age & time—with different women, but that’s not the problem. As it is, his firstborn is close to 40 years, and none of his kids, all 14, are doing well in life.
Ten of us are in our late twenties and early thirties. None of us is married nor has a good paying job or has a car nor a rented apartment, not anything good. Yet, this man doesn’t give a fuck at all. He’s an average man that has like three houses and two cars when things were good for him, but now he’s broke, but the assets are still there. Very broke that he’s always hostile towards us, the children that don’t come from his current wife.
He h8tes our respective mothers so much, except his current young wife and her two kids, and trust me when I say this: mothers of ours have not offended this man in any way that warrants such h8tred and despise he has for us. Whenever he has a little change that can, in one way or the other, help or change the life of any of his child, this man will prefer to lavish it on buying a car to boast around his peers and circle or give his young wife and spend it till it’s finished.
When the money has finished, he will start being hostile again and starts going from one babalawo house to the other. He’s very man•pulative and more like a narci$$ist and blames others for his misfortunes and missteps. I’m writing this rant to ask people that “No matter how rich or comfortable a father is, should he pray not to ever reap the fruit of his labor”? Like, do you get it?
This man literally rubs it in our faces that he doesn’t give a fuck about us, and he’s not expecting any good thing from us (the children). I believe even as rich as Dangote and Otedola, I don’t think they will ever pray not to reap the fruit of their labor, or am I the one seeing it? Reaping the fruit of your labor sometimes is not even about money.
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