Hello, I want to share this here and need an honest opinion. Earlier last year 2024, I met a guy on my way back from work. Mind you, I was looking so stressed out that day and wasn’t even putting on my wig. The way he approached me and refused letting me go till I gave him my number, and I left. We started chatting and he invited me to his place countless times which I was turning down—because of work actually. Finally one day, I told him to come get me from my place and he did. We drove to his place—we stay just opposite each other’s estate. Immediately we got to his place, this guy didn’t even wait for me to sit. He started being touchy and all, which I found uncomfortable. I asked him if this is what he invited me over for. He stopped at a point and we started conversing. All of a sudden, he started acting weird when I told him that I am from Enugu State. It got bad that he even told me to get my handbag so he could drop me off home. I was shocked and asked what happened. He didn’t say anything. I picked my bag and he dropped me back at my place, and that was it.
After some weeks he started chatting again, which I wasn’t even interested in anymore. I didn’t block him though. This last Christmas, I was bored and wanted to have some fun, so I got an account on Tinder and exchanged contact with a guy there. We started chatting for a while before I agreed to see him physically. On the day we were to meet up, when I got to his place, it looked kind of familiar but I brushed it off. He came out to meet me, we greeted and went inside. We got to talk and knew each other. He was nice and treated me well. He said he wanted to step out to get something and asked if I wanted to come along, which I accepted. I even changed into his clothes. On coming out with him, I saw the other guy I met on my way from work. I was shocked to my bones. I waved at him and went downstairs. On getting to the car, I asked the one I came to see if he knew the other guy I just saw. He said yes—that’s his brother. I didn’t even know what to do, but I wasn’t bothered because I didn’t do anything with the other guy. He asked where I met him from and I told him.
We drove off and he asked if anything occurred between us two, which I told him no, and that was it. Ever since then the second brother has been on my neck, asking I give him a chance to prove himself. Omo, it’s just so complicated for me, which I told him. He said that won’t stop us from dating. Mind you, I haven’t had sex with any of the two. And to be honest, I like the second brother more. He’s more mature, calm, and treats me like a baby. But accepting his proposal as his girlfriend is just what I don’t know about. Yes, I like him but I’m scared. This is two brothers we are talking about here—same parents. Hmmmm.
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