So, I might be writing a lot because I’m currently high on a drink. Two years ago, I met this lady at a brother’s place. He’s not my brother, but he’s like a brother to me. I got my first and second car through him. Yeah, we are into fraud. There are so many details, but I’ll cut the story short. I just got out of a t0xic relationship and promised myself to start going out more at that time. Then I went to visit this bro, but I met a lady there, a dark-skinned lady. That’s my type, but I wasn’t trying to be in a relationship at that moment, so I didn’t notice her.
But she knows how to do her thing. She got my Instagram through someone there, hit me up, and started a conversation, and now I visit often due to her and due to my heartbreak and need to be around people and go out more. She’s an ex to my so-called big bro. They dated when she was around 19 years old, but she was 22 when I met her there. He has a big house now (built). He was depressed and called her to come down to the state we were in because he had no one at that time.
She came down here, helped him get stuff for his home and all, but needed somewhere to lay her head as well. When I got there, I met another big bro I used to know in the street back then. He just got back to Naija, and he needed somewhere to stay too, and he was there, along with another guy who is a hustler. I met her there. We talked and got along. I didn’t want to get into a relationship, but she knew her way around things. She made me committed. I had no friends at that time, so she became my friend.
Although she lied about some stuff, which I caught her on, she pleaded that she had to lie so I wouldn’t see her as a red flag. I thought about it, and she was right. I met her at her ex’s house, but as she said, nothing was going on between them at that time. She just needed somewhere to be in the new city, and that’s the place she could be until she moved to her cousin’s place after we started dating, due to the respect she had for our relationship and me.
But that wasn’t her cousin; that was a friend she grew up with (male). I forgave her, and things were moving. We had issues almost all the time because I was always insecure due to where I met her and the lies she told in the past. I said some bad words to her and ruined her day sometimes. Yeah, I was toxic in the relationship. I went to her place one day and said some really bad words to her. That day was a Saturday. I was under the influence of tramadol.
I went back to her on Monday to apologize, but she was in tears, telling me she had moved on already. She went out with a guy on Sunday, and they crashed at his place, had sex, and he just came to drop her off that Monday morning. I felt heartbroken. I left. So basically, she was in a new relationship, but I was not in one because I needed to work on myself. I met girls, but I didn’t want to be in a relationship. Six months later, she called. She wanted to get back with me,
wanted to date me again because she wasn’t attracted to the person she was with, so she dumped him. We met, and that one person was still calling her. She broke that person too, if you ask me. She said the person was calling because of the words she said about his mother or something like that. She wanted to be in a relationship with me, and some part of me still had feelings for her. I need your opinion on whether I should continue what we had or let her go.
Plus, I hit up the people who were with that bro (her ex when we met), and they let me know nothing happened between them while she was with him. This girl is strict. She’s a very strict girl. No harsh words, please. Just a bro trying to get different people’s opinions. After we broke up, I turned into a nuisance, doing stuff I wouldn’t normally do. Taking drugs, spending money lavishly. But I was hustling. Got a new skill. She had a great impact on my life (money-wise). We broke bread together, and she helped me build myself.
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