I met this girl around November 2022. We started off as close friends, and we got along well, even though she had a boyfriend at the time. Eventually, I ended up stealing her away from him. We have such a strong connection, like 100% matching vibes! We started dating, and she introduced me to her mom, family, uncles, and friends. I even met her dad too. Things were going great, but then in March 2023, her mom passed away. She became vulnerable, and a lot of guys, including her exes, reached out to her for condolences. Unfortunately, things started getting complicated, and we ended the relationship in April 2023. Even though I got into a new relationship, I still couldn’t stop thinking about her. However, I never tried to contact her because I blocked her everywhere. But when I changed devices, she started calling me occasionally.
Sometimes I answered, but if I ever missed her call, I never returned them. She eventually moved to Lagos and embraced the Lagos lifestyle. We started talking again in December 2023. She was in Abuja, so she booked a flight to PH and stayed at my place for a few days. I know it was wrong because I had a girlfriend, but we didn’t have anything s£xual. At some point, I asked her to leave because I wasn’t comfortable. She didn’t make it clear what she wanted, and she wants us to just be friends, which makes me uncomfortable. I still have feelings for her in some way, but I don’t want to be with her. She doesn’t want to leave me alone and keeps mentioning her feelings for another man, which isn’t helpful. So I asked her to stay away from my life and tried to push her away, but she just keeps coming.