When I started dating this guy, I didn’t know he was mental. He was all over me for the first six months of our relationship. I dated him for almost two years. Suddenly, he became nonchalant towards me, blocked and unblocked me, and started acting like he wasn’t the communicative type. Whenever he ghosted, he would say, “I was going through a lot,” and I believed him. Later, I found out that whenever he wanted to cheat, he would ghost me.
I always questioned him about it, but he would say, “That’s how it is; they’re just friends.” They would come to his place to cook, smoke, and take snaps with different girls. I didn’t say anything. If I asked him for money, he would say he doesn’t spend on women, even his mother, and that he preferred spending on his male friends. Ironically, those same friends wouldn’t help him when he needed assistance, and he’d come to me instead.
If I couldn’t help, he would just block me. Recently, he blocked me because I did an interview with a friend, ghosting me for three weeks. When I tried to reach out, he cursed me. During those three weeks, I decided to meet someone else and blocked him. Suddenly, my boyfriend wanted to see me, and when we met, he questioned if I had met with another guy. I admitted it, and he got angry.
I apologized, but he kept saying he couldn’t trust me anymore or commit to me. I was actually happy because it seemed we would break up soon. I was only attracted to him sexually, which is why I hadn’t left him. Then one day, he texted, saying, “You don’t deserve me; you’re a sweet girl,” and blocked me as usual. He probably thought I would reach out, but I didn’t. He’s out of my life, and I’m happy.
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