I have been depressed for the longest time because of how broke I was, and I’ve been thinking about how to start something. I recently reached out to my well-to-do cousin for a bit of help. Not like we haven’t been talking. We’re on good terms, or at least I thought we were. So, I asked him to lend me some money to start something, about N50k, and I would pay him back. He refused, saying he can’t help me and that he doesn’t have money. He sent a voice note saying I should not ask him for money again. I was really shocked. This is someone who spends a whole lot on different girls, and then your cousin, your family, whom you’ve never had any issues with, asks for help, and you refuse?
I’m genuinely confused. Genuinely. And I know some of you will want to attack me for being entitled, but is this really entitlement? I haven’t even finished my story. You know what k!||ed me? That very same day, at night, this cousin of mine sent me streaks of himself squandering money in the club! And I’m here crying, I can barely feed, not to mention having money to start a business. Is it not wickedness? Anyway, I unfriended him and blocked him everywhere. Doesn’t make me feel better, but at least I don’t have to see videos of him squandering the money he could have used to help a family out.
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