Please you guys should look into this matter because my conscience is judging me and my heart is beating. I have known this man for two years now. He is just a friend. He really likes me, and I like him too. He is far older than me though. He is a Muslim while I am a Christian from the eastern part. I left the state I knew him to school in another state which is very far. We still communicate but not like before. Whenever I ask this man for money, he won’t give me, and he is very wealthy, but stinginess won’t allow him. All my mind is that he just wants to sleep with me and go. That’s the more reason I felt entering into a relationship with him might end badly. So last December, he sent me N40k to come back home, though my parents stay in that same state but in a different location. I lied to him, giving excuses why I couldn’t come. With a good heart, I told him to send his details so I could refund the money. He asked me to take N10k and refund N30k. I did with my church mind. Ever since then, he stopped talking to me. Anytime I ask him for something, he won’t answer me.
Around March this year, he messaged me and asked if I would come back for Easter. I said yes—I lied. And now, I’m really in need of money because expenses are much and I have no one to help. He sent me the N30k. Now, the thing is that I don’t know what to tell him or how to tell him that I can’t come without refunding the money, and I really need the money to sort some bills. I don’t know if I should block him or just not reply again. I’m really confused. I don’t want to hurt anybody because I know if I should ask him for the money, he won’t give me. My parents don’t have anything because the economy is dealing with them, and I don’t want to drop out. I need your suggestions—no insults please, because that one will hurt me the most.
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