I have a boyfriend of almost two years. He has a female bestie and other girls who are his friends with benefits. I noticed he stopped cheating a bit, but then he’s still after a lot of girls. I’m a graduate and a business owner, but I haven’t told him I have a business yet because he might stop giving me money. He doesn’t satisfy me with sex. He cums before I do, and even if we go again another time, he still finishes before me. But he’s not a two-minute man—he’s good in bed—but I don’t feel that spark in our sex anymore. I’m getting tired of sex. I don’t feel like having it right now. I just want to focus on my life, but I love him, and I wish he would just leave his female friends and focus on our relationship so we can notice where we’re lagging and work on it.
Instead of having deep conversations with me, he’s busy talking to other girls he calls his “bestie.” Mind you, no man has ever seen my nakedness or had s£x with me before I started dating him, not even a year before we got together. I just want the best for us, and I don’t think I should talk to him about this yet until I’m sure he has nothing to do with those girls. Even if I bring it up, I feel like he won’t take it seriously because he never takes things seriously. I have a lot to talk about, honestly, but I don’t even know where to start. I wish I had just stayed celibate.
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