My boyfriend is going out of shape. He has always been a big guy (big stature), and I used to admire him, especially because I have a small stature. But as time goes by, he’s adding more flesh… he’s gaining weight in areas like his stomach. His D size is average—very okay for me—but his big tummy makes our sex life a bit lacking. I’ve convinced him to hit the gym numerous times, but he always proves stubborn. He’s too lazy for it. He doesn’t really have financial burdens, which might explain his lazy lifestyle. What can I do?
I really love him, and this issue hasn’t lessened my love for him one bit, but I want my man to look good and fit, at least. Plus, I fear it might get worse and be even harder to address in the future. I also don’t want to keep bringing it up because I don’t want him to feel bad. I don’t want him to feel I’m body-shaming him or that I’m ashamed of him. I really don’t know what to do.
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