So, I’ve noticed my boyfriend’s family does not like me. I’ve told him several times, and he keeps saying they don’t have my time, but I have a very strong feeling that they don’t like me. My boyfriend is so in love with me, and I’m very much in love with him. We are even looking to start a family together, but I have noticed how his brothers behave sometimes. There was a day I noticed them looking at me with a very bad eye, and I was so surprised. I’m nothing but nice to these people. He once told me that his mum doesn’t like my tribe.
The first time I spoke to his mum, she was cold to me, didn’t sound friendly at all. We’ve been together for a very long time now, and I still haven’t established that friendship with his mum. She’s never once asked about me. If she calls, he tries to reduce the volume of his phone so I don’t hear what she’s saying. I used to think he was trying to be private, but I’m beginning to feel otherwise now. Do you guys think I should continue in this relationship, or should I move on?
He told me I’m dealing with him and not his family, but I don’t want to be in a place where I’m not liked for no reason, or where they don’t like my tribe. Everyone I know loves Benin people. I’m still surprised they don’t like us. I find myself constantly trying to prove them wrong. I’m a very friendly and happy person, I don’t want to be in a place where I’ll have to act cold or mean. Should I go on? My boyfriend has told me not to worry because nobody will decide for him, but I’m scared for myself. Do I remove myself from this situation?
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