I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and nine months now. He’s been one of the best things that has happened to me, and although things were rough for us in the beginning, we got to understand and love each other more over time. I love him so, so much. Things became kind of rough for him financially at some point, but he was still trying to cope. Currently, he has been so broke that he only has N10k in his account at the time I’m writing this rant. I discovered I was pregnant recently for the first time, and I made the decision to ab0rt the pregnancy because we are not financially ready to take care of a baby.
The fetus was just three weeks old. I noticed he has become really distant over the past few days, and when I asked why, he opened up. He said this pregnancy woke him up from his slumber and made him realize he has been slacking, that he needs to get serious about making more money for us. This guy gives me attention 24/7, but he begged me that he might start talking to me less often because he wants to get really serious, and I honestly agree. I admit that I’ve been distracting him by always wanting to talk to him 24/7 during this period that he’s broke. He said giving me attention 24/7 isn’t a bad thing, but he wants to focus now.
I’m really sad and fear he might lose feelings for me. My Rantandtalkz family, and especially the guys, is there anything I can do to make him not lose feelings during this tough phase? I mean, to sustain the relationship? I don’t want to lose him. I trust him, though, because my boyfriend is so blunt that he wouldn’t play around if he had lost feelings.
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