My boyfriend complains about everything I do. I don’t do things right in his eyes. We started dating on December 12th, 2022, and the relationship was perfect, not until 6 months later. He stays alone in a two-bedroom apartment, and he does everything for himself. I work in a company where I collect N40k as a salary, and even though the money is not much, I still manage it because I can’t sit at home. I work Monday through Saturday. I always go to my boyfriend’s side on Sunday. His house is far from my house so I don’t even go to the church because of him. I always cook for him that Sunday, but the thing is, he loves to complain a lot. If I pour water on the floor and he enters, he will complain, even if I am still there. If I take my bath, he will complain. Or if I use his perfume, he will complain. Okay, I sent him a love message on Valentine’s Day, even though I had paid for his gifts, which I planned I would take to him on Sunday.
He didn’t even reply to my messages, and when I called him to tell him about not replying to my message, he didn’t say anything. So, I had to cut the call and sleep. When I woke up in the morning, I got a voice note from him complaining that he was tired of the relationship. Like I don’t spend on him. Last year on his birthday, he asked me not to get him anything because he doesn’t like receiving gifts from his girlfriend because his ex-girlfriend had insulted him with it before. But I didn’t mind, and I got him slippers, which he appreciated. On my birthday, he took me out, and we spent more than his budget. Mind you, he was the one who picked the food, even though I asked him to let me do it, but he said no, so I let him do it, and we spent over N175,000 on food that we couldn’t even eat. I had to support him with N50k even though I was broke. I am not the kind of girl that asks for money.
If he gives me, I will take it, if he doesn’t give, I will not even ask him. Now he says he is tired because I am not bringing anything to the table (money). He is the guy that doesn’t like sharing his problems with me. He prefers his friends more than me, which I don’t even complain about because I am a free person, and I want peace of mind in my relationship. But now, the problem is he keeps saying he is tired of the relationship, and I don’t want to lose my relationship because I love him so much. But at the same time, I don’t have money to give him too. Please, what should I do? Should I free him or fight for my relationship? I am not the kind of girl that cheats in a relationship; I am honest.
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